But in the end i would say it doesnt mean thats the end of life. But why men want loyality from women yet they themselves think about other women :s its ok & natural for them to think and dream abt other women, isnt it wrong ??? It is well known that women are by nature jealous and reluctant to share their husband with other women. Jazakalla hu khairan. or There are certain things that a woman can put on her marriage contract to prohibit the man. We have to accept and love the ways Allah has rolled it down for us . There is a reason why the majority of inhabitants in Jahhanam are women. In this case, the divorced wife does not need to marry the second husband and get a divorce from him. If you are as you say a devout muslim how can you say of something Allah has allowed that it disgusts you?? You also have the option to opt-out of these cookies. 5815. I think the writer of this article is a bit misinformed. I used to cook food for them I did everything a wife should be doing. And I totally I agree with muslimah. Judge by what is right according to Quran and you will see how Allah subhanahu wa taala will sent double fold of blessings your way.. This is not the case with all the men.. we are not chicks of the same hen. yes, sex is not the only thing important in marriage, but it is the most important. Like it or not, some men are polygamous in nature (if not all) and we have to deal with that. Thats extremely difficult these days. There is no Hadith about men please note. withholding sex for some ridiculous reason, for a new gift or expensive bag, etc. d ring. He Desires Your Loyalty The practice of polygyny continued till Rabbi Gershom ben Yehudah. Fee amanillah. However, he would have failed to give her own right, and fulfilling the right of a muslim is an obligation, as such, he would have committed a sin. Allaah says However, I could be a second wife, no problem but I could NOT EVER be a first wife whose husband then took a second. It says in the Reliance of the Traveller, "The husband of a woman who bears a child (0: no matter whether his marriage to her is valid or invalid) is considered to be the child's father whenever it is (N: legally) possible that the child could be his, meaning that: (a) the woman gave birth to the child six months plus a moment after the . You should note that it is not permissible for a woman to Its the second time in my life that the word second wife was mentioned to me. The cookie is used to store the user consent for the cookies in the category "Performance". You cannot say Im a muslim but I dont agree to polygamy. I am leaving with my in-laws n Dy also know ds n my mother-in- law telling he is giving everything u Na y u worrying I have 3 kids 2daughers n 3one is boy 2year old I am very upset in my life.. physically. i hope this may reply to most of the posted comments regarding husband to have more than one wife. Neglecting my children and the business. Sister, I would be careful about saying that multiple marriages disgust you. know where his interests lie, so he prays istikhaarah asking that Allaah My husband thinks that as he left this lady, then his condition becomes worse. 4. 5. I believe you know the wisdom behind this command of Allah swt. you dont have to be a muslim wife to do these just a wife..it goes without sayingmarriage is a commitment for life thats just me personallyy.if you cant ..then dont get married..im a catholic and my fisnce is muslim ..hes s just the same with a non muslim guy.hes a man he has a needs and when you love someone..you will do anything to keep him happy im not even his wife yet and im doing that already. I got married to him for my family, soon after marriage the day I went to his house the entire house burden n my father in laws responsibility was on me. I could see some poor girl who is being abused reading that and validating herself and coming back for more. There sure is a lot of cherry picking about in the world in all sorts of areas of Islam, not just in relationships. They are not property that can be done with at any time without any consideration; women are life partners. what I have noticed from the hadith When a man calls his wife to his bed, and she does not respond and he (the husband) spends the night angry with her, the angels curse her until morning. then you have the right to separate from him and rightfully demand a divorce from the shariah court (if his actions are violent and selfish and hurtful to you then our dua are truly with you. A businesswoman, Mrs. Tomi Harrison (not real name), said she contemplated suicide when her husband informed her of his plans to marry a second wife. If he is of good character and religiously devoted he will go his daily life making sure to follow the sunnah of the prophet and the holy Quran. It would be difficult for my husband to provide for multiple wives, both financially and emotionally. Hmmm! when we started talking, I made it very clear to him my thoughts of getting involved with a married man. Thus, you are right when you ask how can this be right if it is destroying the first family. Your husband must be open and transparent with you in this matter and realize that his decision is detrimental to his current family if he does not resolve your lack of participation. Mohammad made the rules for his time for some purpose. 7. Right to Receive Financial Support. Sex hormones are released in the adult body every day. Even that Muslims brother had a couple of wives in Paris. I am not Muslim, however I respect/support his beliefs and the teachings/love of Allah. Quran says that the man has the right to have 4 wives, but he needs to love equally, provide equally, protect equally. This will also keep a man loyal to you. I like to watch tv on the rare times Im not not being called for surgery. Wish we could all just treat each other with respect and be honest/sincere with each other, instead of playing games and lying. How can something as superficial as growing a beard be a sign of a better muslim? A womans being patient in obeying her husband is one of the Yes, your husband has to take permission from you to marry another woman. 2. to ask Allah of all that is good for you according to HIM. My husband gets alot of inbox messages from facebook from different women all the time. This Turning on can be on different levels but its always there, whereas, this kind of attraction in women is nothing as compared to men, so she should be creative in keeping him attracted to herself, and always welcoming to the sexual needs of her husband! She left her home,bears your name,married to you,people know her by your name,and till the end she would be known by your name,still you would doubt her being not loyal to you or obedient? He is ignoring me. -_- when he want love with me, it is at day time at other place. i dream of being able to respect my husband but i must admit over the years i feel that respect i had for him is declining Ive stayed loyal despite our circumstances. and his wealth, until he meets Allaah with no sin on him. Classed as saheeh Well done. You have a nerve to say all men want another woman at some time. his family told him to do second marriage. Man is not allowed to divorce a woman just because she cannot give birth to his son/daughter. take time to find out. the second wife got baby. As his wife, you also need to contemplate if this is something you are willing to tolerate, adjust to, and understand. He Wants To Have Sex More Often. Is there a special reward in this case, or is it the same reward for all women who obey their husbands and make their religious duties? You sir are correct issue at hand is that most people here are A. NO! Jazakum Allah khayran. reward for being patient in the face of a trial, as Allaah says I thought I wanted to convert but to see this is how men really think? If you want a second wife you can go out and get one as long as you know that I will not be here when you come back! I repented, not once in my life did I think my action worthy of repentance because I had done nothing wrong. So.If the women is the bread winners, is the shoe on the other foot? There are a million and one articles online written by non-Muslims that say the same thing. looking at women is natural and unsinnful is just YOUR THINKING AND NOT ALL MENS. I remembered so many years ago when the life of another woman depended on my decision and what my decision was. God would not be ok with this garbage. Another point is that actually polygamy can lift the burden of responsibility the woman have towards their husbands and gives her more freedom. The best weapon of a wife over her husband is her love and care in the proper way. How many of us men are amirs or princes living a lavish lifestyle. Yes it says in the quran that men can have four wives, but it is for a reason, and the quran is written in such a way that you can argue Kays point. Just be sincere and the next time you think about one of the great things he does that makes you love him . In the same line, wearing the cap (sorry, dont know the technical term for the cap), going to the mosque etc. Im sure each wife will be happy with that. Is he repeating some move he saw in a movie? Please know that when a man does not respect you, and does not keep private what goes between you and him, its a red flag against him. I hope that shed some light on the issue for you all. so tell me what are my rights? permissible manner. Its ridiculous. Must be wise in facing the jealousy of women. O ye who believe! Im with you 100%, Kay. Similarly, its unfair for men to expect their wives to behave like Aisha (RA) and his other wives (RA) did. iii) If he is not satisfied with his first wife in serious matters. . You men are so full of your selves. Despite it being illegal, Hindus have more multiple wives as compared to the Muslim. In general, being single and dreaming you are married is a good sign, but . The writer is just being realistic! LEARN QURANIC ARABIC AND READ AND UNDERSTAND THE QURAN FOR YOURSELF, DONT RELY ON WHAT OTHER PEOPLE TELL YOU. Love or Respect: Which Do You Prefer?. I am an educated older woman. He came to my brothers house to see me. InshaAllah we all better ourselves and our relationships. destroyed your home for his sake? disobeying Allaah or going against His commands, this is a sin for which he Good advice, but zowji doesnt like sandwhiches! You are certainly rare. This is the one who is expected to be fair and just, and to fulfil duties and obligations. There are no contradictions in Islam at all,no loopholes.if ur husband loves you so much and u re not in the mood to be intimate he ll not go to bed angry because u ve nt agreed,.There should be understanding btw u.it is not irrespective of your feelings. (Abu Dawud). Surely there are other ways that you can help her out financially without having to MARRY her! Daeef al-Jaami al-Sagheer, no. We are living in Saudi Arabia with my husband and three children, and expecting twins. sis if u r true Muslim then I would deeply advise you to fear ALLAH. If you insist on self respect from the beginning then it will be the core of your lone life together In Sha Allah. Correction is painful. Alhomdolillah he is very soft and understanding if I dont want to be intimate but other men are not so kind. there are many ways a man can help and support other womans without having to marry them and having any relationships. In Islam, men are taught from a young age that they are supposed to be the bread-winners and caretakers of their families. (4) Will give birth to virtuous children. How could ones condition change so drastically? When my husband was alive we lived comfortably. It might be years later but I had to leave my reply. Its halal but the man has to live up with it. If the woman convinces him somehow not to be angry or have some genuine problem to avoid it then I dont think she will be cursed. Think about this please. The hadith regarding this matter says fair treatment. 33:36 Beat her. This is what I am afraid of. This will add to your familial kinship relationship. If you want more advice on marriage watch https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jf6B4xk3kcI by Yasir Qadhi. As for Muslimah, do always remember Allah knows everything and he is mercy full, so what will you do .. Will you make DUA asking Allah Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and his companions, This was shockingly one sided. Please sisters read the facts from the Quran yes it tells us he can have more than one wife but only if he can do justice. I hate my life ever day. You r married to him and having two children, just try to not as to much attention and care about ur children as long as hes good with you, respects you, caring about family financially then do it for your children,unless untill they are enough grown-up. Not young enough or just plain not ENOUGH! foundation, not on a foundation of pleasing Allaah and His Messenger I jus wanna say just because this is what you would wanna do to your woman doesnt make it right. The Quran does state that the husband is allowed to take up to four wives but only if he has the means to provide for them. i met my husband 11 years ago and all through my marriage has been very bad and secrets and lies and he do haram to his body ..and the first month and before was good all was done halal but from problem s he did i lost all respect especially when i found out he had second wife i excepted it and became friend s to her because allah say,even it killed me inside i did this only for my children to still have father and i did as wife should do but the teaching he showed me i never believed from allah as allah is fair to both some people use islam for there own need s to cover there mistakes anything i did was wrong and man is like child most of time i was drained and anything i did good was wrong his haram was always halal to him no matter wat i said now its only me my children and i hope allah punish all man that put good wifes and children through this to suit there haram ways. I want to ask I got married 3 months back with a man whom I hated the most. The article is sure a nice way of giving a heads up of how many men tend to think like. I dont need any more excuses for inconsiderate behaviour, I have plenty from a lifetime of society-at-large encouraging me to be aggressive and violent. My husband never ever thinks or talks to other women. Disclaimer:The conceptualization and recommendations stated in this response are very general and purely based on the limited information provided in the question. Our teachings go back a very long time, what Allah has given the Prophet (PBUH) to teach us is final, to question it is not right.equality is important, and we are taught that. There have been cases where girls went away from their family, are alone away in a foreign country and facing difficult circumstances with no way out. Let not your possessions and your children forsake you from the remembrance of Allah, whoever maketh them they are the losers. (Verse 63: 9). Advertisement cookies are used to provide visitors with relevant ads and marketing campaigns. Threatens you with divorce when ever you say you going to tell her husband about they little chats on a daily base. Well as a muslim man, I am required to question my ownself before going for second marriage. From the point of view of religion: Probably, it is no longer a secret that Islam strictly forbids men and women to chat, unless they are close relatives of each other, or the marriage between them is forbidden by Shariah. i`m sleeping alone. becareful what you say Islam does not revolve round you but your revolve round islam what ALLAH SWT made permisable who are yo to make it haaram. Lastly, make sincere dua that Allah SWT blesses you with someone who will love, respect and be a good role model for you and this is the best outcome inshaAllah. nobody is forcing anyone luv. Please guide me in islamic way, I feel for you, you seem to have loved this guy and he seemed to be using you prayer that you offered. Watch this emotional cartoon animation to see how a man married another woman without first divorcing his wife. JOIN US Facebook https://bit.ly/3yOap. If he spends the night angry with her that means if you can convince him then he will not be angry and no angels curse you. We were both widowed. what is his greatest dream, namely the destruction of a stable, believing I thought of leaving him and live alone with my son. I find point 3 rather black and white. So figure it out It is not just about you. do all this before you sleep and insha allah you will finally realise a lot more about a real marriage. alhamdulillah we were blessed with a lill princess.hubby has changed since I gave birth to our bby.he would touched me whenever he want.he loves kids so do I.i thought maybe its because he was tired thats why he refused to sleep with me in 3 to 4 days..after that he would come n touched me again.now I had to undergo an abortion. His duty is to protect and provide for the family, even if the wife is stronger and wealthier. To the person who wrote this artical.. Thank you!!! So its incumbent on the husband to be kind to his wife, discuss the matter with her in a gentle and pleasant manner, and this should be coupled with spending whatever money may be necessary in order to gain her acceptance of the situation. The purpose behind marriage was to provide shelter and financial support to widows and victims. The cookie is set by GDPR cookie consent to record the user consent for the cookies in the category "Functional". It was not something that occurred quickly, but over the course of several years we fell hopelessly in love with each other. 4. Salam. I met a Muslim man three years ago. Honestly speaking? If he doesnt abuse you or sleep around. The part about sex is ridiculous. if a husband truly loves his wife then he will never leave her. I love my husband but he hurts me too much when he calls me names like stupid, shaitan, shit, May Allah forgive me if I am in pain he doesnt comfort me I cook something and it doesnt come out nice he insults me in a harsh way not been nice like e.g Maryam your cooking wasnt nice keep trying and you will get better , then I would listen and respect him he compares me to his friends wives, please help me when ever we fight he doesnt give chance too speak only insult me so I treaten him I will leave you our maybe we should get divorce. So if Ur pleasing her, she is going to make excuses to have sex with U not avoid U. But due to their respect in society they want me to go back. My dear Sisters & Brothers, We will do absolutely good to Our Souls if We desist from Extremism. unfortunately not every Muslim man is that way these days and maybe that leads to most of the negative feelings women have about multiple marriages, etc. unbearable hell. marrying someone other than her husband when she is still married to her Sura Nisa Chapter 4. We dont tell our wives I love you often enough. You never know a persons situation until you are in it. The mind is what you will live with for fifty years. And my parents wont allow me to to it until I atleast pass the age of 22but being that I am a hormonal mess, I have to admit that as a female that I have desires that I would love to fulfill with my future husbandhowever that is not a reality for me. He tries to do something (like start a business or go back to school) but fails at it. Does he . It is a secret bond and divorce is strongly discouraged by Islam. Get it together men. Because I love him too much but he loves the 2 nd wife only. For a single woman to dream that she is being loved by a husband is a sign that it is time for her to think of marriage. I am a married woman with kids.My husband treats me very well and takes care of me well.Recenetly one of his relatives a guy almost about 10 years younger than I am and I became very close and before I knew it he fell in love with me.I told him that its not on but his feelings for me grew and grew. 5. Thank you SO much. You have all the right to maintain your self respect and If he still marries another woman without your consent he is destroying your self respect. Youre better off coming to terms with this and accepting it than having false, purile notions about men.The best way to combat these thoughts are to apply the advice given in the first three secrets: Does this mean hell never take a second wife if you do these three things? he will not be able to stay with out her. Dear Mehwish, Answering your question, Sheikh M. S. Al-Munajjid, a prominent Saudi Muslim lecturer and author, states: Some things may be hard to swallow for us women, but Allah swt Created us this way, so rather empower yourself with this knowledge and understanding, than bemoan and question the way of things. Of course sister if a woman wanted to have sex with her husband & intensionally he refuse it. i am conservative about my appearance and how I dress. iv) To give protection to a widow or any other woman who requires it. I felt contrite, I felt that because I did not give another woman a chance, a space in my life, that Allah will punish me this time around. something haraam. O ye who believe! But how different the circumstances. It has to be earned. Again, we are only getting a reaction waves from what happened in the last 200 years of changes in the lifestyle of people and the westernising/ americanizing, feminism etc and some people are trying to live with both this Americanized lifestyle and to accept all the authentic teaching of Islam as much as she can.. There was an immediate connection between us. Now coming to the original question, why is a man allowed to have more than one wife? It is possible that your husband was pressured by his parents to marry. It doesnt mean hes going to cheat on you. So really, #4 about him thinking of other women is not bad, that is his right. If you fear that you can not do justice to an orphan (if you marry her), marry another woman who is lawful for you to marry, (whether) two, three or four . (Verse 4: 3). Earlier, there was no restriction even on Hindu men with respect to the number of wives allowed. plz advice me thanks. I am again into depression and dont know what to do. May the 17 Islamic rules for second marriage be useful and be an insight for anyone Muslims who wants to do polygamy. 6. Ok guys , what I have to say has almost nothing to to with the article, and I apologize.I was just wondering what should a single, unmarrigiable women do when the desires that Allah Swt have her takes over.like I am under the marrigiable age. Never! After 2 weeks, a group of ladies from my family went to my in-laws house for patch up, but in front of them my husband again repeated the divorce words three times. Your email address will not be published. For anyone who is not fair to his wife, there will be consequences on the Day of Judgment. During wars, there are more men killed as compared to women. In a religion banning intoxication, this is one of very few ways to feel drunk or high. I am definitely not of the temperament that would allow me to share. Why are men not told to concentrate on aakhira rather than just fullfilling their sexual desires in this world? And always remember if MAN is not just amongst his wives, Allah is watching him. I liked him and I liked everything about him. go back to the initial thesis statement ( make sure you know what the issue really was, read the answer again and if you still dont know, sit with your husband and make sure you both understand what the question and answer were talking about. that I have to be pleased emotionally and sexually and if not, there are other men just like for them other women. As described in one of the verses of the Quran below. Mashaa Allaah,this was a pleasant article to read. Some of us are fortunate enough and some of arent. We're best friends who can talk about anything with each other. What makes a man leave his wife for another woman Out of these, the cookies that are categorized as necessary are stored on your browser as they are essential for the working of basic functionalities of the website. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO IM TERRIBLY HURT PLEASE HELP ME WITH AN ADVICE ANYONE I LET MY PRIDE ALWAYS FOR HIM BUT NOW I CANT GET OVER THIS OR FORGET THIS. Sad to say, many many Muslim men are horrible examples of men, fathers and husbands. One of the purposes of getting married is to protect the private parts. Allah knows best , there is a reason for this , you just need trust Allah . This commandment is written in the same verse in Surah An-Nisa. no one can add or reduce quran, Purpose just to get back at one another. Abu Dawud). could be in the good situation in which you are, but you do not appreciate Etc. This is a very great blessing indeed, which is not appreciated by So she is praying istikhaarah about betraying him and This, like everything in religion, comes down to meaning and application by the individual. Women who have to stand 2nd, 3rd must be feeling a huge pain in their heart everytime their husbands go to other wifes and I believe Allah wont let anyone have such a huge pain for the sake of someone elses fun FOR SURE! Views : But we just cant treat you the same way he (pbuh) treated his wives. Alhamdulillah Allahs made it a fair play for both men and women. May I point out that marriage is very hard experience for both parties. Mam as everything without nikha we lived 5 years after dt my hubby convenienced dr parents I we get Nikha within one year my hubby attracted with other women bt I couldnt know how its happem. As I said before its much more of a burden than a privilege. But if she refuses, only then will she be punished. How can he trust you if you Second wife! India has more male population than female due to female foeticide and infanticide. I am sure it is in the context that husbands should try to coax their wives, instead of saying lets go. These cookies ensure basic functionalities and security features of the website, anonymously. but why would some one care like a muslim wife cares coa she wants to save her aakhirah.. hey sista. BarakAllahu feekum. According to these scriptures one can marry as many as one wishes. Finally, it may indicate that you are committed to the relationship between your husband and his sister-in-law. Thats what they wont tell you. GOD has not created women emotionless Polygyny falls in the middle category of things that are permissible. AstafirAllah. im a young muslimah and reading most of your posts has upsetted me you all in eachothers hair you can give advice yes but if you do it with attitude even if you right allah will not reward you for the advice you have given im not one to judge for Allah is the judge of all imperfetions..im human and by reading all these posts it has scared me for the way you guys dont respect the law of islam and how selfish some woman is may allah put it in your hearts to accept whatever difficulties lies ahead for you and bear in mind allah will never put i through something we wont be able to handle for allah is mercifull and you sould accept and respect all trails that comes your way repend to allah and allah will help you accept this matter unshallahin the name of allah may we help eachother other then going off at one onother remember no one is perfect but we can always try and help the next person inshallah.. il make duah for all wives that feels this way about this law il make duah for allah to grant you the guidance to soften your hearts to grant you wisdom and to give you the ghidiah to repend inshallah ameen may allah increase our knowledge and forgive us our sins ameen. All he used to do was he was busy in his own world. thats the only thing a woman cant take. you, why is he striving to wreck your home and destroy your family? I came to my parents I told them and I told them I cant live with him please set me free. Everytime it isnt a happy hour to spend. 100355. You need more discipline in your life. Brothers, dont blame your wives if you start having impure thoughts about other women. How many muslim men have actually married more than 1 wife around you? Honestly the muslim women today are taking theri commitments way more seriously than the brothers. If a man refuses to consider his wifes sexual pleasure, along with being a jerk, he will have to answer to Allah for his neglect The consistent and constant advices to women to be patient when husbands are complete failures is ridiculous and getting really tired in 2016. 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